Wednesday, May 20, 2009

No, not necessary at all.

No, I did not fell off the face of the Earth. Or died being stabbed to death in my sleep by the creepy weirdo I live with. Or lost my sanity over the workload and the crazy ass journalism assignments. Motherfucker, 2000 words essay every week is enough to make people kill okay. No, none of that. The Constantly Dramatic One is, put simply, a lousy blogger these days.

I do however wanna discuss this book that I am currently reading. A most interesting book. It’s called Are Men Necessary?" It’s basically a men-bashing book written by a men-hating feminist, but this particular men-hating feminist; author Maureen Dowd has such a good flow of words and so witty that the book is actually entertaining. It’s the age old dilemma you know. As women get more and more successful in the workplace, do they get less successful in the love department? Do men only want women they can dominate? Can women objectify men the way men objectify women? Can women get rid of the entire male population, keeps some frozen semen for in vitro fertilizations and start a more wonderful, peaceful world where men doesn’t exists at all?

Good shit.

Of course just because I’m reading this and finding it ridiculously entertaining….and recommending it to girlfriends….doesn‘t mean that I hate men. Of course I don’t. As I have demonstrated again and again….and again. I don’t hate men. It’s just a good book okay.

And as fate has it, I had a date a couple of days ago. It was with this guy…who quite frankly I’m not really into. But he’s really keen on me. And since I am a woman, and a drama queen and I do adore the attention- I told him yes. I’ll go out with him. I wasn’t even nervous. I know this sounds mean, but to me it seems more like a………….trial date until when I actually have a proper date with this cutie who I totally have the hots for. You guys would remember him seeing that this post, was indeed bout him. But yeah. Moving on.

So we went out for a movie then of course well…dinner afterwards. The conversation was going well. I was charming. He was nervous. Ball’s totally in my court. At the back of my mind though I feel bad for him cause well. I’m just not into him. I’m holding out for that other guy. But hey a date never hurts anyone right?


Until the topic turned into books. And he excitedly went on and on about this book that he is currently reading and I was like “OMG! Me too! I’m reading a good book too.” It did not occurred to me that books with the title “Are Men Necessary?” is really not a good choice of conversation topic on a first date.

Ever been a train wreck? I have. Cause I’m the dumbass who admits to reading “Are Men Necessary?” on the first date with a man. If I am on a lesbian date- this would totally score me points. With a man, not so much.

It wasn’t until the words were out of my mouth did I realize what I’ve just done. He was like “Uhhh….why are you reading that? Do you hate men?” Shit man, talk about such a puny fragile ego. The rest of the date was bad. It was just so bad. He wanted to know all about the book, I have to promised him 3 times that “No, I am not a lesbian and no I don’t hate you just cause you have a penis.” And no matter what we talked about after that, it kept on going back to the book and why I am reading it. He wouldn’t believe when I say it was just for kicks. The fuck.

Seriously. Seriously. Chill the fuck out. Omg, it’s just a book. Are men’s egos so fragile that they are threatened by such a little thing like this? It’s not like I told him “No I will not have sex with you cause you do not come up to the standard of a real man in my mind. And that’s Clive Owen and you look nothing like that.” He would probably kill himself if I did say that. It was safe to say that the date was a disaster. Bruised ego on the first date was never pretty.

And no, he never called back.

Men such as him, with such puny egos, are indeed not necessary.


Tinesh said...

Yes, you can get rid of us men. Better yet, since you wana get rid of us, make Mars habitable and send us off there.

Rest assured, we're not giving you our sperms to be frozen on account that you are independant and intelligent and can certainly find a way to create babies with no sperm.

As it is you have the dildo and vibrator (both if im not mistaken created by dumb fuck men who dont like having sex)to satisfy you sexually, so yeap. We're not necessary at all.

ps: when you send us off, allow women who voluntarily wanna come with us. we cant live with blowups the rest of our lives you know :P

Queen B said...

OMG! (Oh My GaGa)

u look fabulous without anything~

oh! the gurl in da pic is not u....sorry~ ;P

anyway, at least you know the taboo subject on the first date with a guy~

hope u dun repeat it when u r on a date with a clive owen look-alike!!

Michelle said...

Soooo funny! Well, you weren't that into him anyway! And yes, men ARE that fragile (maybe not ALL men). They just can't believe women can get off with out them, and if they do they shouldn't. But it should be okay for boys & men to spend hours jacking off. Did you ever hear a woman complaining that men shouldn't jack off because then it would make women obsolete? If I waited for every boyfriend I ever had to get me off I would be sans orgasm for months on end. Get over it.

Sorry, I guess that was my own little rant there. :)

taxy said...

And that was a 753 word post, just a tad under half of your weekly essay requirements.

Technodoll said...

You know what they say about men with small egos... SMALL DICKS!

Next time you could say any of the following to test your date!

1. I've smoked fatter joints than that.
2. Ahh, it's cute.
3. I'm sorry.
4. Never mind, why bother.
5. Who circumcised you?
6. Why don't we just cuddle?
7. You know they have surgery to fix that.
8. It's more fun to look at.
9. Make it dance.
10. You know, there's a tower in Italy like that.
11. Can I paint a smiley face on that?
12. It looks like a nightcrawler.
13. Wow, and your feet are so big.

Good luck!


Charlotte said...

Jajajjajajajaj, so funny! Posts like this are REALLY NECESSARY in boring afternoons at the office ;)
PS How are things going with the other guy?

Frank said...

I'm totally necessary for my incredible amounts of awesome, if not for my ability to reproduce.

quin browne said...

It did not occurred to me that books with the title “Are Men Necessary?” is really not a good choice of conversation topic on a first date.i snorted out my juice.... oh, you are a hoot.

Ali said...

You've been tagged in my blog. :)

teasinglydiverse said...

I just came across your blog, love it!

SassyGirl said...

Well at least you get to find out early on that you two are NOT going to work out. His loss.

Peter Varvel said...

I fell off the face of the earth. Too bad I couldn't fall all the way down under to where you are.
I love men and I want to read this book now!

Femme Star said...

Good to see you're still around!

Zikri said...

Are you sure you're not a silly feminist? :P

btw woman i cant find you on fb, find me instead

good man said...

It is undeniable that malays are stupid, incapable and lazy. Why don't they just humbly admit the facts and repent and learn from other races especially Chinese?

What is the point to argue here and wasting time again?

From the first onwards we were merely telling the truths. It wasn't us who think that way but their own Badawi as well.

All malays should go and read the newspaper, even Badawi is ashamed of maintaining the NEP after 34 years of implementing it and these malay baboons are still asking for it.

Even Badawi wanted them to compete on a level playing field.

So what does all these tell the world? It sends a very clear message that it is malays themselves who are incapable and lazy and they don't even want to admit it and make a change!

That is the biggest shame of all.

Can't you see, it is all back to square one. Year in, year out, some talk for half an hour, some one, some two. Some sing, many belt out their most recent released 'pantun'.

After all. Malays are good at that. Suggestions after suggestions, some good, some impossible to realize.

But, do you see any of these materialised? Hardly. Why, why and why???

Because the malays can never change. Never! Why?

The leaders forgot it or were they simply didn't want to address and admit that the actual disease is the malays and the remedy itself is also, the malays. They can never change. What is it about the malays?

Firstly as you all know, they are a lazy species. Since the beginning of time they have been like that. Even the encyclopedia called them as lazy people. I think those British with their accent tried to call them 'malas', and if you put 'y' in, it becomes 'malays'.

Embracing Islam make them a worse lot. Now they have a license to kill anything that gets into their way.

Malays are ungrateful lot. In reality, they just can't live or open their minds for others. When Mahathir said that they are complacent, they put him in jail. When Mahathir encouraged them to learn English language, they got angry with him, saying it is a 'bahasa penjajah'.

When other races 'maju', they got angry with them too. That was why at the end of Mahathir his regime, he said this, "I have achieved greatness as a prime minister, but I only fail in one thing, changing the malays."

Well, nothing to be surprised about anyway since Mahathir is not really a malay, and I guess that was why the malays were angry with him.

Drug abuse, hate, incest, liberal extremism (culture of miniskirts and gay marriages), murder, parochialism, racism, rape, religious fanaticism, snatch theft, spoilt bratty behavior, tribalism, wife abuse, child abuse, all that is associated with the malay race.

To them, malay is the biggest impediment towards building a truly Malaysian nation, and should be chucked into the dustbins of history.

A genetically flawed race cannot be fixed by politically. Nature will take its course and globalization will put them out to pasture.

What have we got now?

Brain drain, economic disparity getting wider, poor education system, racial segregation, widespread corruption, inefficiency and uncompetitive on the government departments and others.

Sad. Sad. Sad. The question asked by many of my fellow Chinese is this - Why can't you just tell the malay peoples to adopt Chinese culture which is superior?

From research, this peninsular was part of the Siamese empire way before these malays from Indonesia invaded it.

Still so thick skin, don't want to go back to Indonesia!

Tinta Sisyphus said...

FB gua juga

the Constantly Dramatic One said...


Hahaha! No! We shall keep all the women here!

Queen B:

Oh for sure.


Oh noes, I'm with you sister. I'm with you.


A tad? A thousand over is not a "tad" my friend.

the Constantly Dramatic One said...


Hahaha! You always crack me up! =D


The other guy? Oh well....then please proceed to the next post.


Tru dat.


Thank you, thank you. I am here to entertain.

the Constantly Dramatic One said...


Oh really? Will get to it....eventually =P


Thank you, I'm heading to yours right now.


Glad to know that you're on my team =)


You should! It's awesome!

the Constantly Dramatic One said...

Femme Star:

Sometimes. Just sometimes...


OMG. If I have another blog, that's what I'll called myself. "The Silly Feminist". Hahaha!

Good Man:

Dear Good Man, I'm Malay.

You dumbfuck.

And I'm going to Bali next month. Wanna join?