Sunday, March 02, 2008

Bittersweet Aftertaste

" Is solace anywhere more comforting than in the arms of a sister? "

Alice Walker




Weddings are bittersweet.




I am happy that she found someone that love her as much as he does but I hate the fact that things change now. She's someone wife now and one day she'll have her own family. It's sad that I no longer be a major part of that. I am no longer a priority to her when I have been so my entire life. They say I am not losing a sister but instead gaining a brother. But it does feel like that.




No one ever told the little sister how abandon and lonely she'll feel afterwards................................

8 comments:

Didi Ooi said...

you'll do fine. it takes time to adjust ;)

Technodoll said...

That's just the "post party comedown blues" speaking... you will see that life pretty much settles down to what it was before and everything will be fiiine. :-)

Quin Browne said...

she'll always be the person who has known you longer than anyone else (aside from your parents)...and you will be the same with her.


: )

Adrienne said...

oh.. i know how you feel! i "lost" a cousins sister to marriage to last november. all those girl times, being naughty are all gone. now she has to follow her husband instead of hanging out all night with us...

i hate it.

constant drama said...

Thanks guys, I would to reply to all but I havent reach that well, that 'place' yet. Takes a while.

Kuan said...

do you need a slap?

i'll do it lovingly :)

hugs

evie said...

hang in there :)

constant drama said...

Kuan:

And I will lovingly smack you back.

Evie:

Thanks =)